Monday, October 20, 2014

Fitting into Society

Many of these memoirs are about the main character trying to fit in to society.  Even if the main character thinks differently or initially disagrees what he/she is told to do, the need to fit in will overrun your moral compass.  A good example of fitting into society comes from the Latin King.  This book is about how Reymundo Sanchez grows up in one of the most notorious street gangs in America.  “I wanted to hurt someone to show others that I had what it takes.”  Sanchez wanted to earn the respect of his piers just so he could fit in, even if he felt what he was doing was wrong.  Fitting into society for acceptance is also displayed in the Pianist and the Open.  In the Pianist, a Jewish pianist survives the Nazi invasion of Poland.  “Lying is the worst of all evils.”  Many people during this time tried to disguise their body and lie about their religion to fit in with the Nazis.  The pianist tried to keep playing the piano in a restaurant, but was forced out to an interment camp because he could not physically fit in with the Nazis.  In Open, by Andre Agassi, Agassi grows up not really liking tennis: “Under my breath I whisper.  Just quit, Andre, just give up.” But Agassi plays it anyways because he was socially seen has a good player (especially by his dad).  Although Agassi went on to be a professional tennis player, he didn’t do it for the love of the game, but rather from the inspiration of other people.  In lots of cases, fitting into society is the easiest route available to survive or to earn respect from others.


Fitting into society also makes a person experience certain events that he or she would not have done on their own.  As the person matures and earns more self-confidence, or is taken away from there usually life style, they can look back at theses experiences and see what they did wrong.   This allows you to learn from your mistakes and to fight against what is wrong with society.  A good example of this is in the memoir the Latin King.  Reymundo Sanchez was adapted into the gang life, and killed many people to fit into the gang.  As Sanchez grew older though, he was able to get out of the gang, and see what he has done as wrong.  Now he is working against gang violence and has saved over 500 lives.  Another example of this is in the memoir A Long Way Gone, by Ishmael Beah.  Ishmael grows up being a child soldier, but is taken from taken away from his life style and is rehabilitated.  After his rehabilitation, Ishmael now lives in New York and started his own Ishmael Beah Foundation to help other child soldiers rehabilitate in Africa.  Another example of this is in the memoir Look Me in the Eye.  The main character grows up trying to fit into society with Aspergers.  He is finally diagnosed for Aspergers at age 40, but he learns that “Aspergers is not a disease.  It’s a way of living.”  Now the main character is helping other children that have this disease by embracing them that you are just as equal as everyone else.  Sometimes it takes folding into society to see what’s wrong first hand, so that in the future you can change it.   

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